Vin KivaJun 274 minBeing Civil is Really Hard.So, how do we treat people well when we're pissed off? Should civility even be the goal? Quick note: this post is about anger. It'll dip...
Vin KivaMay 114 minThe Problem With "I Don't Feel Safe" & How to Feel SaferIt's important to name our feelings. The trouble is, this phrase is often used not to get to a place of safety, but to exert some control.
Vin KivaApr 284 minIndividual Healing, Community HarmWhen we learn individual healing skills in a vacuum, we might actually hurt our interpersonal skills.